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Man sends woman 28 angry Tinder messages after she cancels their first date

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A woman took to Imgur this week to share her experience when a man on Tinder began harassing her after she canceled their date plans.

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The woman, who goes by the username MsMessyClean, shared the Tinder meltdown on Tuesday, first spotted by Cosmopolitan.

"So I matched with a guy on Tinder," she wrote in the Imgur caption. "He seemed pretty normal at first, a few quirks here and there, but who am I to judge, right?"

"After agreeing [to a date] and chatting on the phone, something felt off," she wrote. "He was too offbeat and I began to feel uncomfortable. The following day he said a few things that didn't sit [well] with me."

What finally set her off, MsMessyClean said, was when he asked if she was on birth control or not. 

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She cancelled their date — and that’s when she said things got "batsh-- crazy."

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His first response was to tell her to stop overreacting. When that didn’t work, he also bragged about how much money he makes in a week and insulted her further by adding he had "double-booked [the date] with another girl."

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MsMessyClean said she was at work when she was receiving these messages. The man also began to call her. "Within 5 minutes I had about five or six missed calls from him," she said.

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He then insisted it was all a joke and they should simply move forward.

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"Are we cool now?" he wondered.

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The Imgur user was not amused, and wondered why she would date someone who had "talked sh--" about her.

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He started insisting they still go out on Wednesday and that she should call him immediately. He also claimed his mom had recently died and he was "not really in the best place to be messed with."

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But MsMessyClean stopped responding.

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While Tech Insider has not been able to reach MsMessyClean at the time of this post, the messages are certainly not the first of its kind.

Back in November, 28-year-old Lauren Crouch went viral after she wrote about how her Tinder date had demanded his money back after she had politely declined to go out with him again.

"I don’t come with a money back guarantee," Crouch wrote on her blog. "Dates aren’t commodities."

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